The Process

For Women

 

Refuge Residential Ministry

The Refuge began as a radical commitment to small group discipleship in a farmhouse in the middle of nowhere. As we learned from both best practices and directly from the men and women we came to serve over the years, our residential model has grown and changed many times, but our values have remained the same. You’ll see them posted at every location, but also – and most importantly – lived out in the lives of the men, women, staff, and (hopefully!) families and volunteers as well.

Our 7 Practices define who we are, setting the culture for the residential core of our ministry – a completely free, 13-month, faith-based rehabilitation ministry for men and women (ages 18+) discipling them from homelessness and hopelessness to hope and homeownership.

The 7 Principles Of Discipleship Transformation

 Commit to God – Matthew 22:37

Be Relational With Others – Matthew 22:39

Be Willing To Be Taught: 2 Timothy 2:2

Choose Honesty & Authenticity – James 5:16

Practice Gratitude & Thankfulness – Philippians 4:6

Display Courage & Faith – Hebrews 11:16

Develop Work Ethic & Stewardship – 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12

Learn About The Process

Select An Option

Discovery

Phase 1

Relational

Phase 2

Application

Phase 3

Launch

Phase 4

Phase 1

Discovery

30-45 days.

In Phase 1, we desire to be a safe place for every woman to discover God and to experience unconditional love and acceptance. This is where they began to see what it looks like to be a woman in God’s sight.

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Safe environment, free from drugs/alcohol and other distractions

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Structured and secluded environment

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Development opportunities for mind, body, and spirit

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Personal development small groups

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One-on-one mentoring

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Comprehensive, individual plan for personal growth based on biblical study

No outside contact is permitted, so that the women can focus on growing personally and with Christ.

Phase 2

Relational

4 months

The “Relational Phase”  Here, women begin to develop an intimate relationship with God as well as learning to trust and rely on each other. This is where they take advantage of tools, skills, and workplace training to be able to be successful women not only in community, but in their homes and future careers. 

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Focus on relationships – with God, herself, others, and God’s creation.

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Regular emphasis on the study of God’s Word, praise and worship, serving, giving, curriculum, and connecting to the body of Christ beyond the Refuge.

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Relational growth is focused on sacrifice, discipleship, sisterhood, conflict resolution, and submitting to authority/peer evaluation in regards to our 7 Principles.

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One on one counseling focused on discovering how God created him uniquely and redeeming his story to use as a vehicle to serve the Lord.

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Regular emphasis on the study of God’s Word, praise and worship, serving, giving, curriculum, and connecting to the body of Christ beyond the Refuge.

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Bi-weekly workplace training allows for slow and steady accommodation to the workplace, with growing accountability and responsibility.

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Focused training and activities so that the women can grow: spiritually, financially, emotionally, physically, relationally and practically.

The restoration process with friends and family begins slowly and gently through weekly phone calls, letter writing and a once a month in-person visit at Family Day as appropriate.

Phase 3

Application

4 months

The “Application Phase”, is the next four months of commitment. Here, the process more closely resembles what most would consider “regular life”. Women work 30-40 hours per week and have more freedom to make choices, while still under the authority and obeying the rules of the Refuge.

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Women work 30-40 hours per week, paying for the majority of their way through the ministry and investing in the women behind them

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Make a small monthly stipend to start saving or spending as they choose

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Engaged in the local church and community, especially in the Franklinton/Hilltop areas of Columbus

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Focus shifts to prayer and preparation for the future as women are trained in one of “2 Pathways” – trainings to serve them in life after the Refuge

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Volunteer coaches meet with the men weekly to walk alongside them as they begin to prepare for life after the Refuge

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May begin making monthly home visits

The restoration process with friends and family continues with weekly phone calls, letter writing and a once a month in-person visit at Family Day as appropriate. Additional contact with children may be permitted at staff discretion.

Phase 4

The Launch

4 months

The “Launch” rounds out the final 4 months of a woman’s 12-month commitment. The focus is on preparing women to return to society as cherished women of God, with a developed life plan and ongoing support. Women are given more autonomy than anywhere else in the ministry, while they also have more responsibility – to serve the community and the church, to pour back into the women behind them, and to set a good example for all the women in Phases 1-3. We raise up these women as leaders in the ministry, so that they can also learn to lead in their homes, churches, and communities as the women of God they were created to be.

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Women continue to hold a full-time job through partnering employers.

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Begin building a life plan and career portfolio that will help them find gainful employment before leaving the ministry.

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Connect with a long term mentor for personal growth and development

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Freedom is given but responsibility and accountability are key

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Allowing space for mothers to learn and adapt to life with their children.

Phone calls and letters still permitted, along with weekend home visits every two weeks. Additional freedom may be given the last month of the ministry to figure out housing and transportation needs.

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Success Stories

"Trust the process. God has your back. This is the best thing I’ve done with my life."

"There is so much unconditional love that I haven’t experienced in any other area of my life."

"Relying on God more since he’s already created this restoration."

"There is hope. God loves them. Anything is possible if you just trust…"

Our Mission

Lives affected by addiction,
changing through Christ.

Our Purpose

“The Spirit of the LORD is upon me, for he has anointed me to bring Good News to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim that captives will be released, that the blind will see, that the oppressed will be set free.” Luke 4:18 NLT

Our Vision

Changing lives of the addicted and those surrounding them through discipleship.

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The Refuge Is A Not-Profit Organization